When we open our eyes to see the real world, we begin to understand where we stand. Terra firma or is it ready to crumble? Let us say ‘what we need’ is a question our brain has still not bothered to answer. We turn to the experienced. For an advice. We learn to advise. Sensible if not abnormal. As long as the scenario is different, advising is fine. What matters is how truly we have experienced its consequences, to be able to advise. If it isn’t so, then give way to deception (most likely).
We are driven by many needs. We want happiness, don’t we? We want to make ourselves comfortable. To find these, to add to our growth, we are mostly driven by advices, to an extent where we begin to see how wonderful the life is going to be but not how difficult. Why do we get influenced so easily! Are we forgetting we have the potential to make our own decisions.(?)
Be Driven. To understand oneself? Better. Driven to rive? Pity.
It takes a lot (or nothing?) to :-)